With hindsight, it seems only natural that Angela and I should have chosen to live in that Brooklyn neighborhood. Down the street is St. Anne’s School, and restaurants of all sorts, by the hundreds, are a short walk away. Sahadi’s is there, and BAM is nearby. It’s a wonderful place, with fine views of Manhattan — Norman Mailer and Truman Capote, among other great writers and artists, called it home, and I sometimes think about all the adventures Angela and I would have had there if our lives had intersected earlier.
Our meeting had to wait a few more years. It was 2008, and I had been in the United Arab Emirates since February, working at an English-language daily based in Abu Dhabi. Angela arrived in December, having accepted a job on the business desk. I knew the ins and outs of what it took to get settled in the UAE (driver license, mobile-phone and bank accounts, social courtesies and etiquette, bureaucratic idiocy, etc.), so offered to help her get settled.
Early in 2009, we decided to move to Dubai. I was spending a lot of time in that emirate because my friend James lived there (it’s about an hour’s drive from Abu Dhabi straight through the desert), and our employer had dropped the ball regarding Angela’s promised Abu Dhabi lodgings. We settled on a large apartment on the 34th floor of a new high-rise complex with impressive views of the Arabian Gulf.
Russ and Judy Labrasca’s Christmas party
Anna eats her scallop
The Brockhaus team during service.
Baby Beast
Angela’s family and see friends during a Diwali feast
During a Jimmie Dale Gilmore concert in Galveston.
At a fundraiser
James cooking Thanksgiving dinner in Abu Dhabi.
Anna and Chris Stanton cook at The Brockhaus.
Mark Bellan (James’ brother-in-law) and Ian and Anna.
Anna Ziajka Stanton and Angela during dinner at Kata Robata in Houston.
Kate Mclean and Annie Balest vamp.
A fine motto.
Stephen Friedrich, James, and Angela at Tony’s
Angela, Judy Rogers, Elvis, and James get all shook up at Judy’s birthday.
Nikhil Shah, Angela’s nephew, and Kiran Shah, Angela’s father, and Aashish Shah, Nikhil’s father
James tries on a mask in Hong Kong.
On the rue where my Paris office was located.
Dean and I cooking in Hong Kong.
Dean shoots James at the Hong Kong horse track.
Angela and Tony Vallone
James, John Ryan, and Eric Heitmann, friends for nearly 40 years.
Dinner with Russ and Judy Labrasca at their home in Houston.
James shot by Angela in India.
The Beast at rest.
James playing foosball on Macau.
A ring and a name
James and Anna
Angela and Margot Habiby in Dallas
James shops in Paris
Tara Serio, James, Todd Gallagher, and Angela in New Orleans.
James and Anthony Bourdain in Houston
Pratima Shah, Angela’s mother.
Angela and her aunt and uncle Houston
Sara Hickman and James on Nantucket
Olivier Ciesielski, a friend, and one of the most technically gifted chefs in Houston.
Monica Pope, Angela, and James
Beckett and James
Sara Moulton, Heida Thurlow, and James at Giacomo’s in Houston.
Angela at a photo shoot in Dubai.
Mark Young, James, and Glenn Dixon with a suckling pig.
Oscar Gutierrez and James in Huntsville, Alabama. Oscar owns Bandito Burrito, one of James’ favorite restaurants.
Angela and some other people in D.C.
The Beast at play
Angela and Guy Stout in Houston
At a Brockhaus dinner.
Kiran Shah, Pratima Shah, Asha Shah, and Madhukar Shah, Angela’s parents and aunt and uncle at Angela’s graduation at Tulane.
James reads inn Marley-le-Roi.
James during Holidays in India.
Angela and Niya, her niece.
Shashi Tharoor and Angela in Houston
Angela’s Tulane MBA classmates at brunch in Houston.
Paul Begala and James in Houston
Dean Cox
Wasim, Fatema, James, and Angela at dinner in Houston.
Angela, Sara Hickman, and James after Sara’s concert in Houston.
Diane Roederer, hostess, and James during a Brockhaus dinner.
Mark Young, Tina Moore Davies, Beth Spencer Dixon, and James, at a reunion in Salisbury, North Carolina, in 2013.
Dean Cox being Dean Cox on Macau.
James in Egypt, circa 1986.
Colby, Angela, and David in New Orleans
Ian and Anna settle in.
James and some of his high school classmates in Austin
James at Park Guell
Robin Monsky, Angela, and James ham it up in Chicago.
James and Angela in Prague.
Sean McLain and his dog in New Delhi
An evening at McSorley’s
Anthony Bourdain and James in Houston
Angela in Paris
Patricia Baglioni, Angela, and James at dinner in Houston
Angela and her father, Kiran.
A motley crew at the Derby
Angela shooting in Paris.
Colby and Kim at the Derby
Angela in Germany
Kevin Naderi, Angela, and Ara Malekian in Houston
Come out, demon!
James, Kiny Friedman, and Angela at Butcher’s Ball 2018
Strolling along the canal …
Surya Bhattacharya and Angela in New Delhi
Angela and her charge in Paris
Angela and Beckett, aka The Beast.
James at Better Luck Tomorrow
Julie and James cook in Jupiter.
James prepping pork belly at The Brockhaus.
James and Jack Conover, one of his closest friends.
Dean Cox
James in Sorrento
A few people gather for dinner in Houston.
John T. Edge at a reading in Houston
Colby and Kim Walton shot by James in Paris.
Angela and James at the Derby
Julie Pierce and James in Houston.
Judy and Russ Labrasca and James and Angela at a gala in Houston.
James and Mickey Gilley
James and Angela in India near the Pakistani border.
Celebrating Diwali
Anna, Angela, Ian, Julie, and James in Houston.
Julie Bellan (James’ sister) and Ian and Angela in Houston
Jimit, Angela’s nephew, in Gujarat.
Colby Walton being Corky.
James at home
Angela at a beer spa in Prague, an adventure shared by James and Todd and Amanda Gallagher.
Jimit, Angela’s nephew.
Angela and friend in Houston
Another selfie
James and his father, James.
Larry Carrel, Sean McDevitt, and James at The Brockhaus cooks in Queens.
Michael Lindenberger mixes it up in Dallas.
James and John Currence in Houston
Jordi Roca i Fontané and James
James and Angela in Prague.
In Malibu
The Brockhaus cooks.
Angela and friend at the Hungarian Institute
Hook ’em!
James tasting at Tony’s Restaurant in Houston.
Colby and Kim and Angela and James in New Orleans.
Justin Yu, James, and Angela at Iron Somm in Houston
Vanessa Treviño-Boyd and Angela
Franco Harris and James at Tony’s in Houston
Angela and James at the Kentucky Derby.
Angela and boy in Kabul
Angela and Catherine Anspon in Houston
Nikhil, Ian, and Ian in Houston.
James on the field in Tampa.
A statue at James’ high school in Germany.
Todd Gallagher during out visit to an absinthe bar in Prague.
James above Sorrento
She said yes high above Manhattan.
Suzanne Marta and Charlie in Paris.
Amanda Gallagher and Angela at Restaurant Tim Raue in Berlin.
James and Sandra and Jodi
Roseann Rogers, Nikhil Shah, and Pratima Shah on Thanksgiving Day in 2013.
Angela and Julie in St. Petersburg, Florida.
Colby Walton being Colby Walton
James and his parents in Safety Harbor, Florida.
Pratima and Kiran Shah, Angela
Dr. Madaiah Revana and James tasting.
Angela and James on St John.
James, Patricia Baglioni, and Tony Vallone
James and his herd in the UAE desert.
Kim and Angela on a hike in Big Bend
Angela, Julie, Ian, and Anna at Giacomo’s in Houston
Ian and Anna, James’ nephew and niece, at lunch in Houston.
Dean Cox, Julie Pierce, and James high above the Hong Kong harbor.
James in Caserta
John Mariani and James
James and Max Westing drink in Kaiserslautern.
Angela ponders in Prague.
Dean and Julie in Hong Kong.
Benjamin Berg, a restaurateur in Houston.
Alyssa Dole’s dessert at a Brockhaus dinner.
Angela and Amy Tanner at Tony’s n Houston.
Kasia and Hugo with James at Palo Santo in Brooklyn
Angela in Prague
Angela in Safety Harbor, Florida
Tina Moore Davies and Angela. Tina and James attended high school together in Germany.
Jordi Roca i Fontané and James in Houston
Boys in Prague.
James, Krista Holter, and Mike Pitzen
Ray Wise and James in Houston
James in one of his sacred places: Kaiserslautern, Germany.
Early days in Abu Dhabi
James’ aunt and uncle, Bill and Janice, and James’ mother, Sandra
James surveying the kitchen during a Brockhaus dinner.
Holger Westing and James at Holger’s home in Kaiserslautern. They were teammates on a Fußball team in Germany and have been great friends since 1980.
Chef Monica Pope and James in Houston
James and José Andrés in Houston
Ida Boyette, James’ maternal grandmother, in an undated photo.
James and Sandra, James’ parents
Angela and Eric Torbenson during a dinner we shared at Breizh Café.
James and Angela in the Hill County in Texas.
Colby drums in Terlingua.
With Colby, Kim, and Andoni Luis Adurizis at Mugaritz.
James and Angela in Santa Barbara wine country.
James and Dan Damico, classmates in Germany, during a reunion in Houston.
Sikkim boys
Kim, Colby, and Angela in Terlingua
James staged here in 2012.
James and Angela in Paris.
Dvid Siegman and Angela in Houston.
Angela at a photo shoot in Dubai
Angela accepting an award in India.
James outside a cava bar in Barcelona.
Angela and a textile artist in India.
James and Madaiah Revana
Colby Walton at a bar in New Orleans.
Angela with children in an Indian village.
Sandra Brock, James’ mother, at the table in Florida.
Angela and James in Abu Dhabi.
James and sous on Nantucket
James and Angela party in Houston.
The Beast
Ian Bellan, James’ nephew, cooks in Jupiter, Florida.
James and a calf in India.
The view from atop the Kaiserslautern Rathaus.
An adventure in Istanbul
In Malibu
Chris preps at The Brockhaus
Kerstin Heitmann and Tyree, in Berlin.
James and puppies in India.
Angela recovering from a sprained ankle sustained in Austin.
James and Angela at a fundraiser in Houston.
Happy waitress in Tokyo, where James dined well.
Margot and Raymond Habiby
James and his sister, Julie Bellan
Angela in Paris
Eric Heitmann and his son, Tyree.
Max Westing and his mother, Gudrun.
At Constance and Alison’s wedding on Nantucket
James and Angela in Lake Charles, Louisiana
Franco Pepe and James in Caserta.
James in Paris.
James at the Derby
Angela posing in Prague.
Debbie and John Dorr and James in Dallas
New friends (too many to mention here), old friends, dinner parties, excursions to Barracuda (a liquor emporium in the Ras al Khaimah desert) to stock up on wine and spirits, trips to Beirut and Oman and Umbria and Barcelona many other places, job changes — Angela and I departed the newspaper for which we moved to the Gulf, she to freelance for The New York Times, Time, and other publications, I to work at Al Arabiya — arguments, smiles, misunderstandings, the sadness and joy of love and life, human frailties … we experienced it all.
Then a farewell to the Emirates for both of us, after nearly five years, and adventures in Europe and India and Russia and Hong Kong and Japan and reunions with friends and an award for Angela in her parent’s ancestral homeland and work in several restaurants in Europe and so much more.
I had begun searching for employment in Houston, and drove north and west from Florida, stopping along the way for a few days in New Orleans (a culinary sojourn, where I dined with a friend at Brigtsen’s, a friend whom I had not seen for years but whose distinctive voice had led me to him from across a crowded room in an artist’s Paris atelier a few years before our New Orleans dinner).
Angela’s parents were kind enough to put me up in their home while I looked for an apartment in Houston, and she and I renewed our adventures in Texas’ Hill Country, Dallas, Austin, Chicago, St. John, California, New Orleans, Berlin and Prague and Puglia. We started The Brockhaus, and took it to Nantucket, where I was hired by Constance and Alison to cook at their wedding (just two of the fine people I’ve met through Angela). I got to know Angela’s family, we celebrated Indian and American holidays, and we travelled with friends (individuals full of art and spirit and soul and grace and love) and spent time with my family and adopted a cat. And we never stopped journeying.
In September of this year, Angela and I finally walked the streets of New York together, the city I love and lived in for 15 years, where, 60 floors above Liberty Street, at the close of a long meal at Manhatta, she said yes.
Where will we venture next? I don’t know, but we can’t wait.
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