With hindsight, it seems only natural that Angela and I should have chosen to live in that Brooklyn neighborhood. Down the street is St. Anne’s School, and restaurants of all sorts, by the hundreds, are a short walk away. Sahadi’s is there, and BAM is nearby. It’s a wonderful place, with fine views of Manhattan — Norman Mailer and Truman Capote, among other great writers and artists, called it home, and I sometimes think about all the adventures Angela and I would have had there if our lives had intersected earlier.
Our meeting had to wait a few more years. It was 2008, and I had been in the United Arab Emirates since February, working at an English-language daily based in Abu Dhabi. Angela arrived in December, having accepted a job on the business desk. I knew the ins and outs of what it took to get settled in the UAE (driver license, mobile-phone and bank accounts, social courtesies and etiquette, bureaucratic idiocy, etc.), so offered to help her get settled.
Early in 2009, we decided to move to Dubai. I was spending a lot of time in that emirate because my friend James lived there (it’s about an hour’s drive from Abu Dhabi straight through the desert), and our employer had dropped the ball regarding Angela’s promised Abu Dhabi lodgings. We settled on a large apartment on the 34th floor of a new high-rise complex with impressive views of the Arabian Gulf.
Justin Yu, James, and Angela at Iron Somm in Houston
James, John Ryan, and Eric Heitmann, friends for nearly 40 years.
James above Sorrento
Anna eats her scallop
Roseann Rogers, Nikhil Shah, and Pratima Shah on Thanksgiving Day in 2013.
James and Sandra and Jodi
Angela in Germany
Kevin Naderi, Angela, and Ara Malekian in Houston
James outside a cava bar in Barcelona.
James and Angela in the Hill County in Texas.
Baby Beast
Pratima Shah, Angela’s mother.
James on the field in Tampa.
Amanda Gallagher and Angela at Restaurant Tim Raue in Berlin.
Kate Mclean and Annie Balest vamp.
James in Egypt, circa 1986.
James and Mickey Gilley
Franco Harris and James at Tony’s in Houston
Max Westing and his mother, Gudrun.
James and John Currence in Houston
James shops in Paris
A statue at James’ high school in Germany.
Angela shooting in Paris.
James and his father, James.
Diane Roederer, hostess, and James during a Brockhaus dinner.
Angela and James on St John.
Mark Young, James, and Glenn Dixon with a suckling pig.
Boys in Prague.
John Mariani and James
A ring and a name
Mark Bellan (James’ brother-in-law) and Ian and Anna.
Kim, Colby, and Angela in Terlingua
Debbie and John Dorr and James in Dallas
Angela and her charge in Paris
Mark Young, Tina Moore Davies, Beth Spencer Dixon, and James, at a reunion in Salisbury, North Carolina, in 2013.
In Malibu
Dr. Madaiah Revana and James tasting.
Dean and Julie in Hong Kong.
Angela and Tony Vallone
Dean Cox
During a Jimmie Dale Gilmore concert in Galveston.
Jimit, Angela’s nephew.
James and Angela in Paris.
Jordi Roca i Fontané and James
Celebrating Diwali
Chris preps at The Brockhaus
Angela and Margot Habiby in Dallas
Judy and Russ Labrasca and James and Angela at a gala in Houston.
Holger Westing and James at Holger’s home in Kaiserslautern. They were teammates on a Fußball team in Germany and have been great friends since 1980.
Sandra Brock, James’ mother, at the table in Florida.
Angela and Julie in St. Petersburg, Florida.
Angela and James in Abu Dhabi.
James at the Derby
Angela with children in an Indian village.
Angela and Catherine Anspon in Houston
Kim and Angela on a hike in Big Bend
Anna and Chris Stanton cook at The Brockhaus.
James and a calf in India.
Colby Walton being Corky.
Angela, Julie, Ian, and Anna at Giacomo’s in Houston
Anthony Bourdain and James in Houston
James’ aunt and uncle, Bill and Janice, and James’ mother, Sandra
Angela ponders in Prague.
Angela posing in Prague.
Colby Walton being Colby Walton
Dean and I cooking in Hong Kong.
Patricia Baglioni, Angela, and James at dinner in Houston
Colby and Kim Walton shot by James in Paris.
James and Anthony Bourdain in Houston
Julie and James cook in Jupiter.
Julie Pierce and James in Houston.
Angela and James at the Kentucky Derby.
Angela’s family and see friends during a Diwali feast
Ian and Anna settle in.
Colby, Angela, and David in New Orleans
Julie Bellan (James’ sister) and Ian and Angela in Houston
James and sous on Nantucket
James cooking Thanksgiving dinner in Abu Dhabi.
Angela and friend in Houston
Sean McLain and his dog in New Delhi
Hook ’em!
The view from atop the Kaiserslautern Rathaus.
James tasting at Tony’s Restaurant in Houston.
Benjamin Berg, a restaurateur in Houston.
Early days in Abu Dhabi
Colby and Kim at the Derby
Anna Ziajka Stanton and Angela during dinner at Kata Robata in Houston.
Pratima and Kiran Shah, Angela
Kerstin Heitmann and Tyree, in Berlin.
Angela and some other people in D.C.
John T. Edge at a reading in Houston
Monica Pope, Angela, and James
Angela and Guy Stout in Houston
James staged here in 2012.
James at Better Luck Tomorrow
Oscar Gutierrez and James in Huntsville, Alabama. Oscar owns Bandito Burrito, one of James’ favorite restaurants.
Angela in Paris
Sikkim boys
Nikhil, Ian, and Ian in Houston.
A motley crew at the Derby
James in Sorrento
An evening at McSorley’s
Another selfie
Angela and boy in Kabul
James and his herd in the UAE desert.
Dean Cox being Dean Cox on Macau.
Angela, Sara Hickman, and James after Sara’s concert in Houston.
James and his parents in Safety Harbor, Florida.
James in Paris.
Suzanne Marta and Charlie in Paris.
James and Sandra, James’ parents
Dinner with Russ and Judy Labrasca at their home in Houston.
She said yes high above Manhattan.
On the rue where my Paris office was located.
Colby Walton at a bar in New Orleans.
Ian Bellan, James’ nephew, cooks in Jupiter, Florida.
James during Holidays in India.
Ian and Anna, James’ nephew and niece, at lunch in Houston.
Tina Moore Davies and Angela. Tina and James attended high school together in Germany.
At Constance and Alison’s wedding on Nantucket
James and puppies in India.
Kiran Shah, Pratima Shah, Asha Shah, and Madhukar Shah, Angela’s parents and aunt and uncle at Angela’s graduation at Tulane.
James prepping pork belly at The Brockhaus.
James and Angela in Prague.
Shashi Tharoor and Angela in Houston
A few people gather for dinner in Houston.
Angela’s Tulane MBA classmates at brunch in Houston.
Angela and Beckett, aka The Beast.
Kasia and Hugo with James at Palo Santo in Brooklyn
Angela and Niya, her niece.
Angela at a beer spa in Prague, an adventure shared by James and Todd and Amanda Gallagher.
James and Angela in Santa Barbara wine country.
Angela and James at the Derby
James in one of his sacred places: Kaiserslautern, Germany.
Happy waitress in Tokyo, where James dined well.
James and Anna
Sara Hickman and James on Nantucket
Dean Cox, Julie Pierce, and James high above the Hong Kong harbor.
Chef Monica Pope and James in Houston
James and José Andrés in Houston
Dean Cox
James and Angela in Lake Charles, Louisiana
James and Angela in Prague.
An adventure in Istanbul
At a Brockhaus dinner.
Dean shoots James at the Hong Kong horse track.
Robin Monsky, Angela, and James ham it up in Chicago.
James and Dan Damico, classmates in Germany, during a reunion in Houston.
Angela in Paris
James, Kiny Friedman, and Angela at Butcher’s Ball 2018
The Brockhaus cooks.
Wasim, Fatema, James, and Angela at dinner in Houston.
Franco Pepe and James in Caserta.
James reads inn Marley-le-Roi.
The Beast
Beckett and James
James and Jack Conover, one of his closest friends.
James at Park Guell
James and Angela at a fundraiser in Houston.
James, Patricia Baglioni, and Tony Vallone
Larry Carrel, Sean McDevitt, and James at The Brockhaus cooks in Queens.
James in Caserta
Dvid Siegman and Angela in Houston.
The Beast at rest.
A fine motto.
James and his sister, Julie Bellan
Todd Gallagher during out visit to an absinthe bar in Prague.
James shot by Angela in India.
James playing foosball on Macau.
James, Krista Holter, and Mike Pitzen
James and some of his high school classmates in Austin
Russ and Judy Labrasca’s Christmas party
Strolling along the canal …
Jimit, Angela’s nephew, in Gujarat.
Tara Serio, James, Todd Gallagher, and Angela in New Orleans.
Colby and Kim and Angela and James in New Orleans.
James surveying the kitchen during a Brockhaus dinner.
Ida Boyette, James’ maternal grandmother, in an undated photo.
Margot and Raymond Habiby
Angela recovering from a sprained ankle sustained in Austin.
James and Madaiah Revana
Angela in Safety Harbor, Florida
Angela at a photo shoot in Dubai.
Surya Bhattacharya and Angela in New Delhi
Vanessa Treviño-Boyd and Angela
Anna, Angela, Ian, Julie, and James in Houston.
Paul Begala and James in Houston
Angela and Eric Torbenson during a dinner we shared at Breizh Café.
Angela and a textile artist in India.
The Beast at play
Angela and friend at the Hungarian Institute
Jordi Roca i Fontané and James in Houston
At a fundraiser
Eric Heitmann and his son, Tyree.
With Colby, Kim, and Andoni Luis Adurizis at Mugaritz.
Alyssa Dole’s dessert at a Brockhaus dinner.
Angela at a photo shoot in Dubai
James and Max Westing drink in Kaiserslautern.
In Malibu
Michael Lindenberger mixes it up in Dallas.
Angela, Judy Rogers, Elvis, and James get all shook up at Judy’s birthday.
Colby drums in Terlingua.
Ray Wise and James in Houston
Sara Moulton, Heida Thurlow, and James at Giacomo’s in Houston.
Come out, demon!
Angela accepting an award in India.
Nikhil Shah, Angela’s nephew, and Kiran Shah, Angela’s father, and Aashish Shah, Nikhil’s father
The Brockhaus team during service.
Angela in Prague
James and Angela party in Houston.
James tries on a mask in Hong Kong.
James and Angela in India near the Pakistani border.
Angela and Amy Tanner at Tony’s n Houston.
Angela and her aunt and uncle Houston
James at home
Angela and her father, Kiran.
Stephen Friedrich, James, and Angela at Tony’s
Olivier Ciesielski, a friend, and one of the most technically gifted chefs in Houston.
New friends (too many to mention here), old friends, dinner parties, excursions to Barracuda (a liquor emporium in the Ras al Khaimah desert) to stock up on wine and spirits, trips to Beirut and Oman and Umbria and Barcelona many other places, job changes — Angela and I departed the newspaper for which we moved to the Gulf, she to freelance for The New York Times, Time, and other publications, I to work at Al Arabiya — arguments, smiles, misunderstandings, the sadness and joy of love and life, human frailties … we experienced it all.
Then a farewell to the Emirates for both of us, after nearly five years, and adventures in Europe and India and Russia and Hong Kong and Japan and reunions with friends and an award for Angela in her parent’s ancestral homeland and work in several restaurants in Europe and so much more.
I had begun searching for employment in Houston, and drove north and west from Florida, stopping along the way for a few days in New Orleans (a culinary sojourn, where I dined with a friend at Brigtsen’s, a friend whom I had not seen for years but whose distinctive voice had led me to him from across a crowded room in an artist’s Paris atelier a few years before our New Orleans dinner).
Angela’s parents were kind enough to put me up in their home while I looked for an apartment in Houston, and she and I renewed our adventures in Texas’ Hill Country, Dallas, Austin, Chicago, St. John, California, New Orleans, Berlin and Prague and Puglia. We started The Brockhaus, and took it to Nantucket, where I was hired by Constance and Alison to cook at their wedding (just two of the fine people I’ve met through Angela). I got to know Angela’s family, we celebrated Indian and American holidays, and we travelled with friends (individuals full of art and spirit and soul and grace and love) and spent time with my family and adopted a cat. And we never stopped journeying.
In September of this year, Angela and I finally walked the streets of New York together, the city I love and lived in for 15 years, where, 60 floors above Liberty Street, at the close of a long meal at Manhatta, she said yes.
Where will we venture next? I don’t know, but we can’t wait.
So happy for you guys! Do come to Austin soon.
Hope to see you soon, Cory.